The best guidance you receive is always from the Lord Jesus alone! Pray to him for answers! He will never lead you wrong! If you run in to hard times in your life He may have place them there to strengthen you ...so don't blame Him if things don't go the way you wanted. He only wants the best for you and that is to make you more like Him...even in the toughest of times! Remember He is God and FOREKNOWS EVERYTHING!